How Organise Your Exchange works

Organise Your Exchange is a platform that helps you organise your own high school exchange by matching you to an exchange family and providing you step-by-step instructions on how to plan your exchange

The stages of Organising Your Exchange

1. Idea

Think about where you want to go, what you want to do, and what you want to share with your exchange buddy

2. Feasibility

Make sure that you are able to organise the exchange you have in mind

3. Sign up

Prepare your profile with your family and sign up to Organise Your Exchange by filling out the form

4. Matching

Organise Your Exchange matches you with a family that has a compatible profile

5. Organising

Work together with your host family to organise the two exchanges

6. Exchange

Experience an amazing exchange and host your exchange buddy in return

What happens in each stage

Stage 1: The idea stage

So you’ve heard about Organise Your Exchange somewhere, have found this website, and are wondering how to get started. Maybe you’ve wanted to go on exchange for years, maybe you’ve just started thinking about it, the idea stage is where any OYE exchange starts.

To start, you’ll want to read through this website to get a feeling for how Organise Your Exchange works. If you’re also considering other high school exchange options, we have a section that compares the most common options with an OYE exchange so you can determine which option is right for you.

If you’re reading this as a student, this is also the time to start discussing an exchange with your family if you haven’t already. This website provides all the information you need, whether you are a student, parent, or teacher.

Questions to answer during the orientation stage:

  • Do I want to go abroad for a cultural high school exchange?
  • What kind of experiences am I looking for, and what do I want to learn? (You can read about the benefits of going on a high school exchange here.)
  • Is our family willing to host an exchange student and dedicate time to make it a memorable experience for them?
  • What cultural activities could we plan for our inbound exchange student?
  • Are there other ways to do an exchange, and is an OYE exchange the right choice for us?
 
At the end of the day, the most important question that will tell you whether you’re ready to move to the next stage is:
 
Am I excited about the idea of organising and going on a cultural exchange?

Now that you’ve considered going on an exchange and feel excited to start, it’s time to assess if it’s truly feasible for you.

This stage is about doing some homework. You’ll need to determine whether an exchange is possible given your academic situation, school policies, financial status, and other practical considerations. You can find a full list of factors to check under ‘What to Prepare Before Signing Up‘.

Of course your situation can change unexpectedly. If you’re interested but are not sure yet that you will be able to commit, you can still explore the idea and start the process.

However, by thoroughly checking these prerequisites now, you’ll reduce the risk of disappointment later in the process, after you’ve invested more time and energy. Also keep in mind that Organise Your Exchange is about creating a two-way exchange experience. Once you accept a match with an exchange family, the expectation is that both sides are ready and committed to successfully organising an exchange together.

Stage 2: Feasibility check

After completing the orientation and feasibility checks, you’re ready to take the next step: creating your profile. Your profile will be used to find a suitable match, and it will also be shared with your exchange family once a match is confirmed.

To create your profile, simply fill out and submit the form available on this page.

Since crafting your profile requires thought and time, it’s best to work it out gradually in a draft version. You can download or copy this Google Doc containing all the questions to work in.

When writing your profile, keep in mind that:

  • The answers you provide impact who you can be matched with. Some answers become hard conditions (e.g. pet allergies, gender of exchange student) and some are soft conditions (e.g. interests of the student).
  • Striking a balance between being strict and flexible increases your chances of finding a great exchange match through OYE.
  • By signing up with your completed profile, you agree to OYE’s terms and conditions.


For more detailed guidance on writing your profile, visit the dedicated page on ‘What to prepare before signing up‘.

Once your profile is approved by OYE, you’ll receive a confirmation email and officially enter the pool of candidates for matching.

Stage 3: Writing your profile and signing up

Stage 4: Matching of exchange families

What happens after you sign up

Once your profile is approved, OYE will immediately begin searching for compatible matches based on the conditions outlined in your profile.

If a potential match meets most of your criteria but has a minor difference regarding a hard condition (see Stage 3), OYE may contact you to propose the match. You are always free to decline should it not meet your expectations.

Matching, confirmation, and payment

When a match is found, OYE will notify both families via email with:

  • Basic information about the matched student (country, gender, age)
  • A request for formal acceptance of the match
  • Payment instructions


After both families accept the match and complete the payment, Organise Your Exchange will share the full profile of the matched family and provide the resources to help you organise the exchange.

For more information about the matching process, please refer to the Frequently Asked Questions.

How long does it take?

Finding a match may take some time, especially if you signed up early in the signup period. The signup deadline for an exchange during the ongoing school year is January 31st (e.g., 31/01/25 for the 2024/2025 school year).

You can also set a date beyond which you no longer wish to be matched, in case matching after that date would not leave enough time to properly prepare for the exchange.

If you are participating in OYE Early Access, you can use the service for free. Keep in mind that some processes may be slightly different.

Stage 5: Planning the exchange together

The match is made, and profiles and contact details have been exchanged—now it’s time for you and your exchange family to plan an incredible exchange experience.

To help you get started, OYE provides an Exchange Playbook, which includes:

  • Suggested steps and timelines for organising the exchange
  • Checklists for key tasks (e.g., administrative actions, topics to align on with the exchange family)
  • Tools and advice for building trust and collaborating effectively with your exchange family
  • Travel tips and tricks
  • Language learning tools
  • And more


You and your exchange family are entirely free to decide how to approach planning your exchange, and every situation will be different. Nevertheless, we believe it’s important to keep these two key goals in mind throughout the planning process:

  • Build mutual understanding and trust between both families.
  • Establish clear agreements on what the exchange experience should involve.

If you're participating in the OYE Early Access, please note that the provided materials are still being refined. We appreciate your feedback and may reach out to you for insights to help improve our service.

The moment you’ve been preparing for has finally arrived. It’s time to pack your bags, travel with your family to the airport or train station, and set off on your adventure.

After travelling solo—perhaps for the first time—you’ll be welcomed at your destination by your exchange family, who will treat you as part of the family during your stay. They will introduce you to their daily lives, share aspects of their culture, and help make this an unforgettable experience for everyone involved.

When it’s time for the inbound exchange, the roles will be reversed. Now, you and your family have the opportunity to share the best of your culture, community, and traditions with your exchange buddy, and create lasting memories together.

Stage 6: Inbound and outbound exchange

Examples of an Organise Your Exchange timeline

Andrés and Ruben standing relaxed on a bridge
2024
April

Ruben, a 16-year-old from Utrecht, the Netherlands, learns about OYE. He and his family decide to start preparing to sign up. They share the information with Ruben’s school and get permission for him to be absent for two weeks during the 2024/2025 school year. They also ensure they meet all other requirements and start creating their family profile.

May

Ruben’s mother signs up to OYE with their family profile. They select Morocco and Spain, and would like to organise a 2-week (10 school days) inbound and outbound exchange.

July
  • Andrés, 16, from Zaragoza, Spain, learns about OYE and signs up with his family. He’s interested in going to the Netherlands, France, or Germany.
  • Because Ruben and Andrés’ profiles match on the most important variables, and they are both into football and music, they are matched and the contact details are exchanged.
August/September
  • Andrés’ and Ruben’s family have several calls and exchange emails to plan the exchanges for the next year together. They communicate in English, which Ruben and Andres are learning in school and their parents also speak a bit.
  • They plan that Ruben will go to Spain in 2025 from April 5th to April 19th, which is one school week and one holiday week in Spain and two school weeks in the Netherlands.
  • Andrés will go to the Netherlands from July 30th to August 13th, which is in the summer vacation for both families.
September
  • Because Ruben’s exchange to Spain falls around the Semana Santa holiday week and flights are likely to be popular, they book far in advance to secure a good price. They book a roundtrip ticket, direct from Amsterdam to Barcelona and back (2.5 hour flight time) for €170.
  • Andrés’ family activate price alerts on Google Flight to be informed about good deals for flights as they become available. Because it’s the summer vacation and therefore high season, prices are higher.
  • Throughout September, both families remain in contact to work out a more detailed plan of the exchanges and to make sure that both families are comfortable with the arrangements for the exchanges.
December

Andrés’ family finds a good deal and books a roundtrip flight from Barcelona to Amsterdam for €220. The families agree to change the dates of the exchange slightly to July 28th to August 12th because these dates have the best flight prices.

2025
April
  • Ruben flies to Barcelona and is picked up at the airport by Andrés and his father. Together they take the train to Zaragoza, where Ruben will stay in the free room of Andrés’ older brother, who is no longer living at home.
  • In the first week, Ruben goes to school with Andrés, where he attends the classes but works on his own school’s homework. They go to a Real Zaragoza football match and go to the local Semana Santa processions together.
  • During the second week, which is a school holiday, Andrés and Ruben go to several local festivals and events in Zaragoza together. With Andrés’ family, they go on a day trip to Pamplona and a hiking trip in the Pyrenees.
  • On the last day of the exchange, Andrés and his father drop off Ruben at the airport and he flies back to the Netherlands.
July
  • Andrés flies to Schiphol airport and is picked up by Ruben and his family. Together they take the train to Ruben’s house in Utrecht.
  • During the exchange, Andrés and Ruben share Ruben’s room.
August
  • Andrés and Ruben visit Amsterdam, Rotterdam, and Leiden together, travelling by train. Andrés joins Ruben’s football practice and they go out with Ruben’s friends.
  • Together with the family, they stay for 4 days on a campsite in Zeeland, enjoying the summer at the beach.
  • On the last day of the exchange, Ruben and his parents take Andrés to the airport , and he flies back to Spain.
Adélie and Katrin looking at a phone and map laughing
2025
January
  • Katrin, a 17-year-old from Magdeburg, Germany, is passionate about French language and culture. Dreaming of studying linguistics in France, she wants to boost her French skills over the summer to prepare.
  • She’d been looking at language courses in France but found out those are at least 1000 euros for a 2-week intensive course, not even counting the cost of travel, food and accommodation.
  • After learning about Organise Your Exchange from her French teacher, she discusses it with her family and they decide to sign up. They choose a 2-3 week exchange in France over the summer.
March
  • Adélie, a 17-year-old from a suburb of Paris, is planning her summer vacation. She’s hoping to be able to travel at least a month, and work the rest, before starting a tourism program.
  • Adélie comes across OYE and signs up with her family, indicating she’s interested in a 2-week exchange with Germany or Spain as she’s learning both German and Spanish in school.
  • Because their profiles are compatible, Katrin and Adélie’s families are matched by OYE.
April
  • Throughout April, the two families connect on multiple calls, using English and with Katrin and Adélie occasionally translating for their parents. Most of the actual planning is done by Adélie and Katrin themselves, as they know what they want to do and will spend a lot of time on trips and activities.
  • They decide that Katrin will fly from Berlin to Paris (€100) on the 8th of July and stay until the 22 of July, when they will travel back to Magdeburg together by bus (€34).
  • Adélie, who is the more adventurous of the two and has travelled by public transport alone before, will come back to Paris by bus (€32) on the 6th of August
May/June
  • Katrin & Adélie are in touch regularly, practise their French and German, and plan their trips together.
  • They decide that during their exchanges, they will speak half-French, half-German to really improve their level.
August (France exchange)
  • Katrin’s parents drop her off at the Berlin airport, where she flies to Paris and is warmly welcomed by Adélie and her parents at the airport.
  • While Adélie’s parents work during the week, they share family meals and spend weekends together exploring local sights.
  • The rest of the time, Adélie and Katrin take advantage of the low-cost OUIGO train tickets that are available and take day trips to Bordeaux (€32), Versailles (€10), Lille (€20) and Rennes (€32). They also explore many museums and other attractions in Paris, all free for visitors under 26.
August (Germany exchange)
  • On the 22nd, Adélie’s parents bring the girls to the bus station and they begin their journey to Magdeburg. Katrin’s mother, a teacher who is off for the summer, picks them up from the station.
  • They spend their time exploring Magdeburg and nearby areas, including a memorable day trip to Berlin.
  • One week is spent camping with Katrin’s whole family in a natural park north of Berlin, where they enjoy lake swims, forest hikes, and visits to local villages.
  • When the exchange ends on August the 6th, Katrin’s family brings Adélie to the bus station for her journey back to Paris.

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